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Friday, June 9th, 2017
10:34 am
Dating a Parent
So I started dating a guy with a lot of baggage. I know for some it may not be a big deal but for me it's new territory and I've never dated a single Dad before. The guy I'm seeing is amazing but the only issues is that he has 3 kids but he sees them every other weekend.

Has anyone here ever dated a single parent? Good or bad experience? And what advice can you give me.

This "relationship" is quite new and we are still figuring each other out. We've been friends prior and known each other for almost a year before it has blossomed to where we are now. Only issue is that I'm a traveller and looking to move countries, whereas he's quite grounded and has responsibilities. I know if he had it any other way he would come or bring the kids too. We are looking at options like a long distance relationship or splitting our time between two places (which is doable but will be hard.)

Thanks for all your advice and input :)


Thursday, July 5th, 2012
1:21 pm
Recruiting Women Who Have Pursued Contact w/ a Favorite Male Celebrity for Online Dissertation Study
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Monday, January 9th, 2012
1:26 pm
my girlfriend and i
so me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years now and have been having sex for about a year and a half my problem is she receives no pleasure at all from sex and it annoys me and makes me feel weird just "fucking" her as she lays there and just watches me usually girls are in they're own zone during sex and its awkward that she just stares up at me while I'm doing what I'm doing also she dries up and it hurts me

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Thursday, January 27th, 2011
2:30 pm
Recruiting Married Females with Divorced Parents for Online Dissertation Study
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• Are 18+
• Female in 1st time, heterosexual marriage
• Experienced parental divorce
• Have had contact with biological father in past 12 months

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Tuesday, October 5th, 2010
12:52 am
he keeps falling out
My new fuckbuddy and I seem to have a problem with him falling out during sex. We've done missionary (him on top, me on top), we tried cowgirl (didn't really like it) and doggy style (I *LOVE* doggy style, but he dislikes it because he can't see my chest)--it just seems like we'll both be thrusting and he'll suddenly fall out and thrust over my stomach.

It makes me feel self-conscious. He's super gorgeous and athletic, while I'm a little out of shape--about ten pounds heavier than I was in college. Sometimes I feel self-conscious about this, because I just have a hard time reading him and sometimes it just doesn't seem like he's that into the sex.

When I've asked him about what makes him feel good, he just shrugs. He isn't nearly as experienced as me, mostly because he's super busy and also really shy. 

I was kind of hurt because tonight, after he fell out three times, he rolled over and fell asleep. :\ I've never been bad at sex. I know I shouldn't feel this way, but I don't know what to do.


Friday, October 1st, 2010
1:22 pm
Relationships/ethics/death-and-dying/grief question
Hi guys,

I have a problem that's really pretty complex and it's seriously starting to crush me. It wasn't initially when I found out, but it's gaining on me.

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Thursday, September 23rd, 2010
11:21 pm
"Come on," she pleaded. "Just stick it in there!"
"Come on," she pleaded. "Just stick it in there!"

"I'm trying," I responded, breathlessly. "It just
doesn't want to go in."

Cameron was sprawled out on the bed with her platinum
blonde hair pulled back in a ponytail, showing off the
dark roots. Anxiously, she waited for me to slide the
large shaft home.

After being apart for nearly two months, this was a
much-anticipated meeting. "Come on," she moaned
again. "You're fucking killing me here!"

"That's it," I said, no longer hiding my frustration.
"I give up." I dropped the large metal shaft I had
been holding for the last 15 minutes. "I didn't come
over here to help you put your furniture back
together. Get your dad to do this shit when he gets

"Good," she said with a smile. "I'm starving. Let's
order some Chinese food to go with that wine."
Cameron hopped off the bed and led the way back

It was the first weekend of summer break, and the two
of us were celebrating a reunion or sorts. Cameron
and I had been friends for as long as I could
remember. We grew up together, and had been nearly
inseparable since the beginning of high school. Over
the last nine months, we had each been away for our
first year of college. Although we talked on the
phone several times a week, this was our first time
hanging out together since Easter.
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Sunday, April 18th, 2010
3:27 pm
I want some lovin!
My bf and I have been together, inseparable, for 7 months. Sex was amazing up until about a month and a half ago, when things just kind of died with us. I don't understand what is possibly wrong with him. I have changed my schedule to make more time, I allude to him plenty of times. Maybe he has become self-conscious about his body? We have both been working out like crazy, and we look great! But he can't seem to loose his belly, and complains about it often. I have become the one to do all the work now in bed, and we haven't really switched it up at all in about 2 months. This is really soon to be having issues rite? And why am I, the woman, having an issue with him wanting me? Please someone give me a clue.  

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Wednesday, April 14th, 2010
10:16 am
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Monday, March 8th, 2010
6:36 am
New Blog you might like
Hi everyone,

I am a 20-year-old female university student. I have just started a blog that I think people in this community might enjoy.

It is a humorous blog giving juicy true details of my tangled love and sex lives. Right now I have several guys in my life, including 'The Boyfriend', 'The Aristocrat', 'The Friend of the Ex' and 'The Bible Basher'. Come and read my witty tales to see how it all develops... You will like my blog if you're open minded and a little bit naughty!





Thursday, February 25th, 2010
10:25 pm
Ill try to keep this short as possible.

My gf has an eating disorder, and hates her body. Our sex life started out great, and has now completely died.

I have bought hundreds of dollars in shoes, outfits, and other things to keep our sex life going. But it is dead, and personally, I have had it with not getting any lovin'.

Her eating disorder has had her moody, so she is always acting bratty around me, and many other things besides sex. I know how she acts when her ED aint so bad, and that what gives me hope on our relationship working out. Without the ED, she is loving, caring, cuddly, and the girl I want to marry. Its like Jekyll and Hide.

I think we are both sick of each others sex drive, but care enough about each other that we dont want to give up our relationship.

Any ideas, suggestions, thoughts, or questions?

Ill do anything to save this relationship.

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Thursday, February 18th, 2010
5:44 pm
Proper Hip Movement In Bed:: Adult Personals Dating Tips

Adult Personals Dating Tips

Mattress mambo got you down? Have no fear; once you try out our adult personals sexual choreography, you’ll ace your game even if you have two left feet, since we’re talking hips — that special cradle that’ll rock your jewels and her world. Herewith, some cool tips for your awesome hips with advice on proper hip movement in bed.


They call it screwing for good reason — meaning circular moves, not hammering straight in. Once you’ve placed your penis as deep inside her vagina as adult personals possible, instead of thrusting in and out, grind your hips in a spiral fashion — like a screw — and you’ll hit the hidden parts of her clitoris that account for 90% of her sensations, with the little pearl being only the tip of the iceberg. That said, if you want to hit that pearl nonetheless, just make sure that you push your hips up a bit at the tightest point of the screwing motion.

Proper Hip Movement In Bed:: Adult Personals Dating

Proper Hip Movement In Bed:: Adult Personals Dating


The PC muscle is located across the online dating crotch in both men and women and controls the nether functions — it’s what you squeeze when trying to keep yourself from going to the bathroom, since it acts as a valve around the genitals. If you learn to relax it as your hips come together and squeeze it as they pull apart, you’ll feel your penis and testicles move up into your body, giving you some indirect prostate (aka male G-spot) stimulation. Just like at the gym, as your hips keep the pumping rhythm going, you need to inhale as you relax, exhale as you squeeze — that is, if you wanna feel the Big O travel right into your toes.

Tailbone swing

For those of you who dig perineal action, add a swing of the tailbone every time you come together and your PC muscle is relaxed. You’ll experience dating services deep pelvic contractions that’ll travel toward your perineum (that highly sensitive, smooth, hairless area between your scrotum and your rear door). In general, any rotation around the tailbone opens up the lower back, providing greater comfort and flexibility. The motion acts like a pump, releasing the energy that’s stored in that meridian — people prone to back pain tend to store their anxiety in there, thereby tightening up the muscles to the point of limited flexibility.

Shallow thrusting

You’ve done the PC thing — bravo — now it’s time to try out something shallow; not as in “What’s your sign, let’s hump,” more like shallow thrusting. Since the outer third of a woman’s vagina is the most sensitive part of her canal — beyond it she can only feel pressure — shallow thrusting can tickle her fancy in exquisite ways. What’s more, it’ll also provide extra sensations to tickle your fancy, since you’ll be concentrating on the most sensitive parts of your Johnson: the head and the corona (as in the groove just beneath the helmet, not the beer). Once your hips establish a steady rhythm, try adding some anal contractions to further intensify your experience.

To combine shallow with deeper thrusting, observe the “rule of 10.” Start with nine shallow, one hard thrust; on to eight shallow and two hard thrusts; followed by seven shallow and three hard thrusts; all the way to one shallow and nine hard thrusts. Then repeat the process by going in the opposite direction, from nine hard, one shallow to eight hard, two shallow, all the way to the beginning, for as many reps as you like.

CAT Position

The CAT position stands for Coital Alignment Technique, a variation on the missionary (not doggie) position where instead of her wrapping her legs around you, she squeezes them together after you enter her, forcing your knees on either side of her thighs. You’ll then hook your feet under hers, for traction, or push off the headboard if you’re really tall, so you can ride high and your hips can pump and grind to give her clit a great workout — this is one of the few ways of increasing the odds of a woman having an orgasm from vaginal thrusting, even though it’ll still be a clitoral orgasm. Throw in a vibrating cock ring and you’ll up the odds of a clitoral orgasm even more. Note: 70% of women will not be able to come from vaginal thrusting alone.

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Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010
10:57 pm
back to school
The first day back at uni is where I saw the very beauty which I wanted to
hold and love with every fibre in my body.Firstly Im in my second year at
uni,jus started the first semester i play hockey n i would be considered a
jock in america but because this is England Im just considered a sporty
chick.Im 19, about 5ft 5,with muscles not fat just a well defined bod cos of
the weights i did as a kid,brown hair with blonde streaks.Ive been told I
have cute eyes n a cute smile by my preivous girlfriends all of whom im
still in regular contact with.
Well back on with the story,she noticed me the very first day i saw her,her
smile accentuating her gorgeous green eyes.No words spoken between us just a
smile,a smile enough to make me take notice of her which can be quite rare
as Id spent most of the summer single after my ex has told me I was too good
for her.She was wearing a loose-fittin South African rugby shirt n jeans I
swear i was totallly blown away by her.I had to calm down cos she was a
fresher n i didnt wana scare away the only potential gf material I'd seen
grace the uni campus.
I'm not into all the mind games crap,n I dont believe she was the type to
play it that way,but until i knew she was gay i kept myself from getting too
excited.I walked into uni the next day n bumped into her again this time she
muttered a 'hello' at my direction. Me,being stupid did a double take
thinking my blonde beauty couldnt be talking to me I carried on walking.Not
disturbed by my percieved rudeness(I didnt know) she decided to drag me in
the toilets n pushed me into a cubicle n preceeded to kiss me hard n me not
aware of the situation took a while to respond but when i did she understood
how i felt fo'sure.After the kiss had ended which seemed like forever not
that i was complainin,she said 'Now u get the hint darlin' Im Alex,n u r?',
'Er Im Beth,Alex its nice to meet ya'.We both knew no introduction was
really neccessary.She had a glint in her green eyes n i still couldnt
believe i was standing in a uni toilet just having kissed a hot girl.She
pulled me in for another smooch n this time it was more heated and I could
feel the passion being generated between us even if it was in a toilet
After we'd finally stopped kissin n groping each other,Alex dived into my
pocket n found my fone n punched her number in it under 'Babe' I wasnt
complaining,but I still had to ask 'You do want us to be an item dont you?'
she looked at me dumbfounded and didnt answer me just grabbed my hand and
pulled me out of the toilets towards the halls.I mean I'm not the type to
have meaningless,soulless sex it just isnt me.She literally dragged me back
towards halls and as we entered the 'Lord Openshaw' hall something clicked
it was my old hall from last year.She was in my old room purely by
coincidence,but the memories came back from me n various girlfriends.
I didnt tell Alex this for fear of reprisal and plus I had no clue where
this was going.She turned the key in the door and led me in.She pushed my
back pack off my back and very slowly moved down to my jean pockets to
remove my phone and wallet,'we dont want interruptions do we?' Alex murmured
and preceeded to trun off my phone.

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Thursday, January 28th, 2010
2:57 pm
Impressions Of Dating Site Profile

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Impressions Of Dating Site Profile

Impressions Of Dating Site Profile

People make huge mistake in describing themselves because they do not know how to present their good australia dating qualities. They make it too subtle and leave it for others imagination. However, that can really go wrong and you end up making a below average personal ad.

Next important thing is describing about your needs and requirements. It is essential telling truly about your needs. You may want to have some peculiar qualities then you should speak it out. If you are not telling it clearly, how can you meet such people from the website? Using the right sort of photographs for your online profile is very important.

Writing an online personal ad can be really nice experience because you are starting to know about yourself and trying to please your future date.


Monday, January 25th, 2010
8:12 pm
First time poster, with probably the most common Q ever!
When my husband and i first met, sex was INCREDIBLE. He could literally make me come just by kissing me and touching my breasts. Now, i know that the sex does dwindle off as the relationship goes on, but lately its really getting me down. However, there is backstory, so here it is:

I have type 1 bipolar disorder, so a lot of the time i am either hypersexed and jumping his bones all the time, or im depressed and dont want him near me. Sometimes the lines blur (like i'll be so manic i dont want sex because contact irritates me, or i'll be depressed and want to feel loved, hence sex), but basically sex is unpredictable with me. I started on medications (mood stabilizers and antipsychotics) back in June and to begin with there were no problems. Then on occasion i would find it almost impossible to orgasm, and started to fake it just so he didnt feel bad. The sex still felt good, just no... well, O. So i would try on my own, and sometimes i could come, other times i would end up hurting myself just for trying all the time. So when i next see a shrink i want to ask him if any of the drugs im on could do this, because its upsetting not to be able to even enjoy sex any more.

We've been together almost 3 years, married 18 months. He was a virgin when we met, so for him sex is still new enough and exciting. I lost my virginity 11 years ago and like to spice things up in the bedroom, although he says he just isnt ready for that yet. The other problem then comes into play: he's a recovering porn addict, so we have to be really careful that what we do doesnt trigger him.

I feel like its not just sex but our whole relationship that's going down the pan. He treats me like just another guy, tells me he loves me a lot but its said so casually, and usually when he doesnt have anything else to say. Sometimes he'll be so sweet and he'll say he really does love me, but its not the norm. We've just moved overseas, so we have no stuff (bar laptops, a few bits we bought in walmart and an air-mattress) and even something like snuggling in front of the TV is hard. But even before the move things were hairy between us. I guess that might not be helping with the "me not coming" thing.

I dunno, i guess im just looking for some advice?


Sunday, December 27th, 2009
2:27 pm
Question about "sex journals"

So I have a question.

Is it wrong to be married to someone who you absolutely love and have sexual stories and create a journal just as an outlet and not tell your partner because frankly......it's not thier thing nor is it something you want in real life? Basically just wanting to be able to release random sexual stories because you enjoy writing and having that outlet.

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Sunday, November 15th, 2009
10:29 pm
Post Pregnancy Sex?
I had a baby 3 months ago and ever since sex was okay'd by the doc we've had problems with getting him in. I dunno if the doc stitched me up too much or what but I'm tellin you this is worse now than when he first took my virginity a lil over a year ago. Is there ANYTHING we can do to speed this process along?

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Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009
3:12 pm


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